My boyfriend has been sharing my laptop. I was going onto the laptop to fix his resume and I found his email open with messages to various amateur porn stars and sex workers asking for rates, times and when their availability was. When I confronted him about it he told me that he was tight on cash, and he was a facilitator to help men hook up with sex workers and was being the in between person for this. He stated he would communicate with them first in order to build their trust before having interactions with the men that wanted to have sex with them and that is why he was talking for himself. He didn’t want to tell me because of how it looked and how he may have disappointed me and that was his assumption based off of the emails and messages that I saw on his social media contacting these women it doesn’t seem like he was being the middleman, and it was more like he was asking for information for himself that my question is for women that have worked in this industry. How do men that approach you for other people work and how much of these conversations are held in person versus using emails, social media, or any other type of digital communication that I am very naïve to this area and I believe because of my own naivety he is using it as a way of possibly making excuses. I would really appreciate if I could get advice on women that have experience with guys reaching out to them to set up meetings for them and how that process has worked finding out this information has really ruined our relationship and I don’t know what to believe and I don’t know who else to contact for this, I don’t mean any offense if I come off ignorant and I’m sorry.

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• As a sex worker… Please don’t tell me you actually believe his reasoning 😭 In my 12 years I have never had a another man reach out to me trying to book me for a different client. All my clients have booked me directly, themselves. For safety reasons I wouldn’t even entertain the idea of someone trying to book me for someone else. I need to screen a client with their real world info before booking.
• he’s lying girl. trust your gut and dump him. there is no “middle man” for contacting a sex worker lol

• These men write the jokes themselves 😂😂🤣🤣😂🤣 I’m sorry but he’s lying!! This sounds exactly like my ex!! On my birthday I saw a bunch of messages pop up on his computer from different girls, including messages from myself and he lied saying that it was his friend’s computer that he was borrowing😂🤣😂 So your friend is getting messages me from now??? I literally gave him that laptop when I bought a new one 😂 Like I wouldn’t know my own laptop from college 🙄 After 2.5 years of dating, and on my 22nd birthday, we broke up and that was the last time he saw me. NO REGRETS 😂🤣🤗 I was young and stupid and he was 11 years older than me. Anyway fast forward to less than a year later his new girlfriend was messaging me on Facebook saying she found him on escort sites talking to them about their rates and whatnot. She confronted him and he said “his friend was using his phone to contact escorts” 🤔🤔🤔 She said he eventually broke down and told her the truth that he had been seeing escorts. So, I’m sorry but he’s lying to you!!! Do not believe that shit!! I’ve been in the sex industry for 6 years now and single for 3.5 years and I’ve learned a lot since then about relationships and men. A lot of men you’d never think see escorts and strippers, do see them. It’s just the facts of life 🥲🥲 I’m sorry you’re finding out this way 🥲